Immediate prayers needed this morning

Harper had an uneventful night until about four this morning. First she lost an iV in her leg, and later her kidneys stopped functioning normally. Around five her blood pressure dropped, so they had to pump her full of meds to get it back up where it should be. Kirby got to see her very briefly and said to just ask everyone to pray as she “just doesn’t look good today. They had to get back to work on her quickly and he had to leave again.  Harper is currently on a cooling machine to drop her body temperature in an effort to decrease her brain swelling, and has already received multiple blood transfusions.

Please pray for the docs to get this all figured put quickly, and pray for a very stressed and emotional daddy who has been with her all this time, and who’s been alone with her since yesterday evening until the next group of family can make it up there with him.

Surgery #1

Here’s a limited update from a sick, drugged out mom still in the hospital in Wilmington:

Surgery started at 8:30 as planned, but due to complications has just now ended for the day. Long story, but what appeared to be three cysts ended up being one large, complex cyst with veins. Those veins caused minor bleeding, so they had to perform more intensive surgery to try to remove the cyst. However, as they were draining it there was a separation which lead to heavier bleeding and halted surgery plans. They had to remove part of Harper’s skull and pack her head to stop the hemorrhage.  She is now stable.  More plans will be made for future surgery and treatment, so please continue to pray that she will remain stable and as healthy as possible. Thank you all for praying steadily for us during this time.

For those who have asked about Mom’s condition, I am still at New Hanover and the fevers keep spiking for reasons they can’t identify, so please pray they’ll figure it out soon so I can get up there to my husband and my baby!

**Much later update to this surgery report… This surgery began as an effort to insert a shunt to drain the fluid from Harper’s brain to her stomach.  The surgeon actually had her stomach and head open to insert the shunt, but at the last minute made the decision to touch the cysts first.  We now know this was God’s divine intervention… had the surgeon started with the shunt, the pressure would have been far too great and our girl would not have survived the hemorrhage.  Our God is Great!!

Surgery Scheduled

Unfortunately my recovery has been slowed quite a bit. I’m running unexplained fevers, so there will be no quick discharge. Harper has had a CT scan and an MRI at Duke and her surgery has been scheduled for 8:30 in the morning. As of now the surgery will involve the placement of a shunt and some work on the cysts that were seen on her scans,but nothing is for certain until they get in there. Prayers will greatly appreciated tomorrow morning!

Happy birthday, Harper!

Well, so much for the plan! Mommy woke up at 4:45 this morning with the beginnings of a placental abruption and was rushed to New Hanover. At 6:40 Harper Lynn entered the world with a wonderfully loud cry! She weighed in at 8 lbs 3 oz, and was 21 1/4″ long. She has a head full of thick, black hair, and scored 9/9 on her Apgar score. She was taken straight to NICU for an ultrasound of her head. Unfortunately that indicated further swelling in the ventricles of her brain.

The Duke Flight team arrived this afternoon to transport her to Duke for further evaluation by the pediatric neuro specialist. We were blessed that there were two daddies on the team who reassured us they would take great care of her. They let Kirby help load her in the box, while the helicopter pilot gave our older girls a helicopter tour. Kirby and his brother took off this evening to be with Harper at Duke while my mom stayed here while I recover.

Duke

We met with doctors at Duke today. Scans showed fluid still and disorganization in the right side, but no active bleed, praise God!  Things are still very uncertain, but for the first time we heard the words, “Your baby will survive.”  We toured the NICU and have a tentative date of Thursday, February 21, for our cesarean, after which Harper will receive a CT scan, an MRI, and further evaluation to determine her treatment.

Specialist visit #1

We met with Dr. Lydia Wright first thing this morning. Ultrasounds confirmed fluid in Harper’s left, right, and third ventricles, as well as disorganization in the right ventricle. Unfortunately there are a lot of unknowns- they aren’t sure what caused it, but it looks like there may be a bleed in her brain. They also could not get a clear picture of the fourth ventricle or the heart. We have been referred to specialists at Duke, and we will meet with them in the morning.

Surprise

Today I decided to call the doctor regarding a totally non-baby related issue. They worked me in to see the nurse practitioner, and she was phenomenal. She decided to go ahead and check on the baby while I was there, and as we were finishing up she asked me about fetal movement. It had decreased a little, which I thought was normal at 37 weeks, but she said she would just feel better if we did an ultrasound. The rest of the day was a blur. The ultrasound tech left the room to call my doctor, and they sent me immediately to the hospital for monitoring. All went well, but the doctor called all the family in and informed us that the ultrasound showed fluid on Harper’s brain. She sent us home but told us to expect a call from the fetal specialist, and to be prepared to have to deliver at Duke.

Another twist in the road

My mom has been diagnosed with breast cancer.  Surgery is scheduled for a mastectomy, and then she will begin chemo.  Nothing is quite as hard as watching your parents in tears and unsure of the future.

Acts 14:22… “We must go through many hardships to enter the kingdom of God.”

Luke 6:21b… “Blessed are you who weep now, for you will laugh.”

Psalm 9:10… “Those who know your name will trust in you, for you, Lord, have never forsaken those who seek you.”

Proverbs 18:10… “The name of the Lord is a strong tower; the righteous run to it and are safe.”

Psalm 32:7… “You are my hiding place; you will protect me from trouble and surround me with songs of deliverance.”

Psalm 33:20… “We wait in hope for the Lord; he is our help and our shield.”

Psalm 34:17-18… “The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears them; He delivers them from all their troubles.  The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”

Are you sure?

Wow.  So, after four (yes, four!) home pregnancy tests, it appears that Whitley baby #3 is on the way!  I was feeling pretty rough as we were spending the week with Kirby in Fayetteville, and my sister jokingly suggested that I might be pregnant.  After the past couple of months, I could not see that being a part of God’s plan- it certainly wasn’t a part of mine!  But I was wrong… I took a test in the hotel, followed by another in the hotel, followed by another at home, and then a digital test at home.  All positive (although I didn’t really believe it until I saw the actual word “Pregnant” on the digital test).  Here we go!